It was another day at work with Janet. She was once again telling me about her problems with her boyfriend. In my mind, she needed to ditch this loser.
I was confident he was lying to her, cheating on her, and was not the guy she should commit to any longer. But, her friends were advising her differently.
Me: “Who are these friends?”
Janet: “My girlfriends from the gym who I hang out with after work.”
Me: “Are any of them married?”
Janet: “No, why?”
Me: “Seek advice from people who are where you want to be. Not from people who are where you are.”